Caroline Constas Designed Her Own Dress for Her Classic New York City Wedding
Caroline Constas and William Chevalier Strother’s love story began during the pandemic, when the fashion designer and the real estate developer found themselves sheltering in place on opposite sides of the Atlantic: Caroline, in Greece, where her family is from, and Will, in his hometown of Santa Fe. Yet after being introduced by mutual friends, a relationship blossomed: over text, the two bonded over the challenges they both faced as entrepreneurs during COVID-19. “Our connection was intense and we found ourselves talking multiple times a day,” Caroline says. “In November 2020, when we were both back on the east coast, we immediately started seriously dating.”
Over two years later, Will proposed—and in an unexpected fashion. “Will came into our bedroom and told me he would really like to go on a 10-day silent meditation retreat,” Caroline remembers. “He explained that he would not be able to use his phone, have access to email or be able to be in contact at that time, and then asked if I was okay with it. I said of course without any hesitation. He then looked at me and said he thought we should get married. The rest was history.” That very day, they walked over to the Bowery Hotel and booked their terrace on the spot for a late-fall affair. Afterwards, they went to Gemma for dinner, sharing a hearty dish of cacio e pepe.
On November 4, 2022, the two held their wedding in New York City. Caroline, who runs her eponymous fashion line Caroline Constas, organized most of the night herself (“The planning was a piece of cake next to running a fashion business—literally!” she jokes) and even designed her own dress. “I knew that I wanted the whole thing to feel very old world, but I also wanted to have a sensual, minimalist feel after the ceremony. That’s where the idea of wearing a jacket on top of a gown came into play,” she said of the concept for her look. After sourcing embellished lace fabric, she worked with her pattern marker to craft a high collar, floor-length jacket complete with a mermaid train of embroidered tulle. Then, she made a charmeuse gown with spaghetti straps, a train, and a plunging back. She paired it all with Manolo Blahniks, a veil from Pronovias, and custom teardrop diamond earrings by William Goldberg.
Caroline dressed her bridesmaids in some of her brand’s most popular designs. “They wore a curation of some of our best-selling gowns from—I chose dusty rose, champagne, and silver gray tones to be worn by each friend,” she says.
The bride describes her ceremony as “imperfectly perfect.” As her father passed away in 2013, she asked her mother and brother to walk her down the aisle instead—without realizing not all three could fit. “It made for incredible comic relief before the ceremony and just took the pressure off and allowed us to have fun with it,” she says. Her cousin, Luc—who was the first member of her family to meet Will—officiated.
After their vows, Rina Ketty’s “J’Attendrai” began to play as they walked back down the aisle. Music from a bygone era continued for the rest of the evening, first as the guests migrated to the terrace for the reception. “It was a blend of 1930s jazz like ‘The Sheik of Araby’ and ‘Je Suis Seul Ce Soir,’” Caroline recalls. Upon arriving at Gemma, the restaurant where the reception was held, canapés of pizzas, grilled cheese, and crab cakes were served, while an on-site cigar roller drew a curious crowd. The guests then sat down to dinner on long, white candle-lit tables adorned with white flowers, where they ate cacio e pepe—the very same dish Caroline and Will ordered the night they got engaged.
As an avid baker, dessert was very important to Caroline. “I find that few wedding cakes are actually delicious and I was determined to serve only cakes that our guests would remember,” she says. She worked with Charlotte Neuville to craft two separate cakes of her dreams. The first was an almond cake covered in white sugar paste calla lilies, ranunculus, and sage green eucalyptus leaves, whereas the second was a lemon cake covered in a white and blush printed toile Caroline herself designed. The third was a chocolate cake, made by La Tulipe in Mount Kisco.
The couple also served custom ice cream flavors made by Katayushka Melo of Culture Cream in Hudson, whom they stumbled upon during a spontaneous trip upstate. “She created and served corn jalapeño for Will’s southwestern roots and rose and black sesame halva for my Mediterranean roots,” Caroline says.
Their first dance was to “O What a Thrill” by the Mavericks. “It’s soulful, Western, and the title says it all because being together is the biggest thrill we have ever had,” the bride says of her choice. “I think it’s why we chose each other: we both wanted excitement out of a partner.” Their friends and family soon joined them on the floor—and didn’t leave—dancing to a playlist curated by Caroline and Will themselves. “I just keep thinking about the music,” Caroline remembers. “It’s one of the things guests commented about the most, how they loved the soundtrack we played.”
Months later, Caroline says she wouldn’t change a thing about the wedding. “It represented us perfectly,” she says. “Funny, playful, sentimental—and not taking anything too seriously.”