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Happened to me at the gas station not that long ago. I got the “It can’t be that bad, smile.” I so wanted to spray him with gas and set him on fire. Not, you know, to kill him or anything, just maybe teach him not to talk to strangers that way ;-).
LOL – might be we both see those gas prices and frown up almost instantly. Either way, not the time or the place to hit me with the “you need to smile” line, for sure.
I agree….when I am in a foul mood…being told to smile when I don’t want to makes me want to punch out the jerk who is trying to make me feel what I am not feeling….sometimes you just need to cool off on your own timetable and not theirs