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Asking for her panties
rdracing 5 Reviews 2899 reads
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Being diabetic and somewhat inexperienced (afraid), sometimes I can't perform. I am getting better about explaining my difficulty up front.  
Is there a non-creepy way to ask for a providers panties to finish at home? I can't be the only one with this issue.  

Panties are a very personal but usually inexpensive item. Do I offer to pay extra or offer to bring a new pair? No, I don't want to wear them. It's the smell, the intimacy...this touched that!!!
In the right context it is a complement. Hey, I want to remember this... It wasn't you, it was me:(

Advice?

sinfin337 reads

why not book a longer date?

-- Modified on 5/2/2017 7:34:44 PM

Asks for panties says they don't want to wear them, unless they're still in college, then they really don't. It's inly about the trophy.  

Here's a suggestion that's only slightly less creepy:  Go buy a nice pair yourself in her size. Then at the END of your session, give them to her and ask her to sleep in them the night before the next time you see her. Then you want to take them hime to help you masturbate to her scent. She's more likely to agree because it costs her nothing and assures her a repeat session with you in the near future. If she likes you she might even make sure they are more aromatic for you by getting herself off by rubbing her girl parts with the panties.  However, be prepared with a quick answer is she asks you for a pair of YOUR drawers with a dried cum stain.

JakeFromStateFarm295 reads

for someone who has never done this.  Either that or you have a very fertile imagination.

fertile imagination, because I've been told on multiple occasions that I'm full of shit.  

I would agree to this 100%. The client gets the panties, I wear them and then send them home with you.

I would want you and not your panties.  

-- Modified on 5/2/2017 10:15:56 PM

When you book the appointment, tell your playmate you'd like to keep her panties as a remembrance.  Who the heck is going to object to that?

As far as making the request at the end of a playdate, there is always some chance that she happens to be wearing her #1 favorite pair that she is loathe to part with - or that she doesn't want to go home commando.  Just ask ahead of time so she can be prepared to make your day...

If you buy a pair yourself as I suggested make sure you don't get the crotchless ones by mistake or you're just going to smell air.  

Why don't you get her size and buy her a pair. Forever 21, Victoria Secrets or wherever they sell trashy intimate wear should have something you like. She can model it for you.Can something like this work??

Some panties are inexpensive and some are not inexpensive. You're also not just paying for the cloth itself when you buy them from her, you're asking for an extra service pretty much.  

I suggest letting her know at booking that you want to purchase the panties after your appointment so she wears a pair that will suit your budget and brings an extra to wear home.

To everyone saying it's weird, it's not weird. To each their own! Used panties are by far one of the least weird fetishes.

For the last few years, I stopped wearing panties for my dates. I thought that they just got in the way. I am actually surprised at guy that are surprised to see just me when I lift up my lingerie dress! One actually remarked that he loves rubbing his face on a nice thong. I was like wow! So I will resume wearing them again.....one day. ;)

 
Oh, about this thread, pay extra for them if you want them. For such little material those panties can be quite expensive. I think a good tip for the undies would work for her. :) Good luck.

... like she told me.  
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I said, "That's why I want them! To fly my kite!"

I have it on my website & have always sold my soiled undies.  Ladies, do not always wear panties & we can always buy cheap ones just to fulfill your special request.  I used to have a panty boy who loved my scent after sexercise. lol Smile 4 me!

Have her sit on your face and finish yourself it that's your choice.. they won't mind..

Yum!!  Hit me up if you ever tour in my neck of the woods ;)

I only wear matching sets. There is no way I'd give you my panties. Not only that, but I shower immediately before our session and wear fresh panties. There would be little scent on them. If you ask in advance, a lady can select a pair that either don't belong to a matched set or buy an inexpensive pair and wear them for a few hours for best results.

Just ask can't hurt. Or buy them and ask for them at end of session?

JakeFromStateFarm216 reads

Please come back to Stamford, you hot bitch!

I agree with a lot of the advice you were given, just ask in advance if you can either buy hers or purchase some to have her wear during your session, knowing you're taking them with you her. I think most of us have had offers from people wanting to purchase our panties. Whether it's after our session or even simply just to schedule time to come see me in them, watch me take take them off and go...As long as I'm prepared, I'm totally cool with it! Communication is key...I always appreciate it when a guy levels with me about what's up (or not up?!)  It's the best way for you to have a truly relaxed and enjoyable session!

ATLDAWG210 reads

Tip her an extra $40 and she can buy a 3 pack from Victoria's Secret !   A "Win/Win" !!

I have often thought about asking for her panties just to remember our wonderful playtime together, and hey I'm a guy and I looove a womens scent, I find it very intoxicating and erotic. If they made a car air freshner that smelled like pussy I would buy it..
:)

Suggestions:  
Harlow and Fox (for us D and up girls)
La Perla
Trashy Diva
Journelle
Fig Leaves  
Agent Provocateur

Show up with a gift certificate to one of these and I'm pretty sure any one of us will give you the panties we are wearing 😘

Judging from what others have posted, I've got a totally different experience.

I get asked about this like every third or 4th appointment... maybe it's a TS thing, I dunno.

With that, I have no issue with someone buying a fresh pair and having me wear them, as I won't give up the lingerie o wear during appointments. 90%+ of the lingerie I wear for appointments cost more than what I'm making during the session (L'agent, which is the "cheapest" stuff I wear can be 3-400 an outfit, and AP proper and comparative is easily $700+ for an outfit), so I'm not giving that stuff up until it falls apart. I'd part with an entire set, but it wouldn't be cheap. With that, I usually end up going the route of a client bringing me something.

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