what is up with that?every guy who emails me mentioned how often they work out , and that they are in amazing shape and looking super handsome and much young...and gift of gods to women in general...why all men think girls are into the same type of guys...i personally like older men who look older and don't try too hard to fool the time and i prefer guys over 200lb...a little gut on a guy and cheeky face actually turns me on more than hard muscles, jet black colored hair, lipo, plastic surgeries etc

As much as I love a hot hard body and a six pack...at work it is usually accompanied with a shitty attitude because they are paying. Very different in my experience in the outside world. There is not the power of being the buyer. So if I happen to see the self promo crap in an email I decline...too much trouble.

In your ad, you ask that prospective clients tell you their height/weight and general appearance.  

Guys know providers get a ton of emails when they post an ad so I guess some guys think they will get picked if they look like a Men's Health magazine cover model. After all, you providers are all really nymphos who got into this because you just want to bang hot guys right?
I tell providers important things so there are no surprises, but I haven't had anyone turn me down because I'm heavily tattooed or have piercings. In fact, I've created one new fan of nipple rings. That's a plus in my book.

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I guess they're just trying to let you know that they're not repulsive. But yeah I have gotten a few inquiries such as I am a 45 year old male who works out regularly ladi Dadi da....lol...

i  often do the same)

girl, you are right
i need to change that in my ad)i do like men over 60 and 70. my ex was  70+
age is just a number

Posted By: DebbieNoonerGirl

In your ad, you ask that prospective clients tell you their height/weight and general appearance.    
   
 This could lead people to believe that you base your decisions partially on looks, and they assume you're more interested in those with stereotypical "good" looks and fit physiques.  
   
 That's just a guess, though.    Guys could also think you'd be impressed by muscle-bound bodies due to your youth.    
   
 IDK if it's because I don't ask for a physical description, or because I'm old enough to be your mother (likely both lol) but I very rarely get the types of descriptions you're talking about.    
   
 But then.... the majority of my clients are over 60 and past the typically boastful years.  Although many of them are in great shape!  
   
   
 xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

I'm 5'4" and in my late 30's. I drive by the gym every day on my way to McDonalds (sometimes multiple times a day). I'm super toned for someone who sits at a desk all day and plays video games all night. I'm also very active in the local beer pong league. You won't believe the size of my package (that is if you can even find it). I'm sure we can have a great time together as I am a TON of fun!!!

sorry;(( i got carried away...it is just wanted to let people know what the thread is about without them having to click on it and waste their time if they are not interested)

I'm too lazy to attach all of your prior posts claiming to not see old, fat, ugly and so on.  But now you also add you won't see hot, hard body and six pack  LOL

In your case you are simply getting what you ask for. You really can't bitch that your would be clients are simply following your directions.

The more we try to show off and impress, the worse impression we make.

I guess you haven't noticed how many of the hookers babble (posting and on their sites) about their world travels, incredible educational achievements, amazing gym workouts  LOL

you are a real sweetheart are you not
sounds like you have some really deep rooted issues going back to your childhood...you can hate on hookers but you still need them)

I'd also surmise that you're a credentialed professional with the unique ability to ascertain one's mental state from a post.  That is an amazing skill.  I'm quite surprised you have time to comment on this board given you must be in great demand within the psychiatric profession.  

Posted By: GreekGoddess

you are a real sweetheart are you not  
 sounds like you have some really deep rooted issues going back to your childhood...you can hate on hookers but you still need them)  
   

Posted By: Bob.Sugar

I guess you haven't noticed how many of the hookers babble (posting and on their sites) about their world travels, incredible educational achievements, amazing gym workouts  LOL  
     
  Most people lie about themselves.  
     
  Why some dude would tell a hooker that he's whatever amazes me still.  Bring the bucks and have your fun.    
     

Posted By: mrfisher

The more we try to show off and impress, the worse impression we make.    
       
   I give gals an honest description of myself, and I've always done OK.    
       
   

but his criticism was at least as much in regards to johns as hookers, not to mention there is no denying that "some" hookers do babble on and on about their many advanced degrees and world travels, but at least when hookers do it they are doing it in an effort to market themselves. Why a guy would want to "impress" a hooker in order to see her knowing full well that he can't hide a forty inch waist once she meets him is beyond me too.

here is the thing
does his comment pass "the newspaper test," in this case if he was not posting anonymously would any reputable provider see him after he used word "hooker"

I don't. I find that most women are tuned off by my penis, more than likely because it is attached to me. I'm also terrible at eating pussy, so I usually don't go that route.

and unlike either of you, everyone can find out who I am IRL.

You better take care or she'll strike you dead... BTW, I like 'Harlot' better.

No it wasn't because of that. About your post: It happens a lot. I guess some guys do want some validation as well as we do. Except that u usually see that In girls rather than guys. So when u see a guy flattering themselves, it can be a little odd.

Dear Hbyist+truth
I am just wondering being since screening is a large part of your business, what are the certain elements that you look for in a piece of correspondence?  I am thinking a lot of it would be the compatibility of the potential hobbyist and his psychological makeup.  I am guessing one of the traits of men that you would be incompatible with is anyone who is extremely narcissistic within their presentation.  Also there are certain sensitivities that would jump out at you and immediately raise a red flag knowing that this isn't someone that you would be able to get along with for five minutes much less an hour.  Although you tend to give most men one chance, would you say immediately when encountering this persona your guard immediately goes up?

but honestly, anyone who's claim to fame is how well she takes it up the ass really shouldn't be so sensitive about the word "hooker"

Interesting.  Half Chinese, half Italian, is that true?  Not at all what I had been imagining...

Actually Sicilian and Chinese, but Italian is close enough.

as I don't think it's pertinent to screening me. I've never had any provider object when I walked through the door, so I figured the details of how much I work out, body shape etc didn't matter.  

it is the problem, you only see hookers and their only god is $$ if they let you see them ...you can be kinky and dominant yet respectful... a legit courtesan with half brain won't see somebody who is so offensive)

ok, then you are a trick...lol peace  

If they were thinking, "Ohhhh... I wish he had a gut on him!", they didn't mention it to my face.

Why are you so hung up on labels?

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been out of the country but her ad said she was a "world traveler"

"I personally like older men who look older and don't try too hard to fool the time and I prefer guys over 200lb...a little gut on a guy and cheeky face actually turns me on"

By calling herself a 'world traveler', she could have meant that she has traveled/will travel to certain 'countries' - namely, the Greek Isles, France, Russia, and Asia. That would be the first thing that I'd think if I read that phrase...maybe I've just been hanging around here too long, though.

really have no DATY skills at all. sigh! I think you have the right attitude about it.

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

as I don't think it's pertinent to screening me. I've never had any provider object when I walked through the door, so I figured the details of how much I work out, body shape etc didn't matter.  
   
 However, since I'm only 165 soaking wet, have no gut or cheeky face, and am pretty muscular for my size, I guess I won't need to bother you with any emails.    
   
 P.S. I also don't mention my DATY skills. I figure each provider will let me know what she thinks about that.

the problem is that so many gals go Oooo and ahhhh while guys go down on them even though they are lost at sea.

Which persona does that?

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

But only so I could kick him in the nuts.    
   
 Bwahahahahahahaha ~ love ya, BOB!  
   
   

so true ....#sorryaboutit

Posted By: MatureGFE

really have no DATY skills at all. sigh! I think you have the right attitude about it.  
   
 Steph xoxo  
   
   
   

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

as I don't think it's pertinent to screening me. I've never had any provider object when I walked through the door, so I figured the details of how much I work out, body shape etc didn't matter.    
     
  However, since I'm only 165 soaking wet, have no gut or cheeky face, and am pretty muscular for my size, I guess I won't need to bother you with any emails.    
     
  P.S. I also don't mention my DATY skills. I figure each provider will let me know what she thinks about that.

lets always remember that both providers and hobbyists)

She has some most loyal acolytes here.....................

and I did not even mention that I worked out and am amazing at DATY.

I hope they come out to play as well.

Does that mean I should not tell younI am an old fat guy as part of my intro?  LOL

And so fitting from someone who describes herself as "perfect companion", "very pretty", "very unique and special" etc.

Maybe more like groveling for some reason  LOL

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

They know I can handle myself...like right now, it's my bedtime.   LOL  
   
 =P  
   
 But I do love my guys!!!  And they know that, too.  (Conan doesn't have to tell me where to put apostrophes, BTW.  )

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While I am not attracted , you guys are generally nicer and well mannered and way less arrogant. Sometimes the money portion turns good guys into assholes...you know the type...I am paying so I make the rules etc.  

Same goes for kissing.

As in "I'm paying for it but I don't need to pay for it." ;-

I never tell how old i am or if i look good personally i don't think look all that hot and daty skills whatever if i make her cum then i guess I'm good enough. I do however somehow try to mention the size of my junk with out coming right out and blurting it out. I don't do this for ego or to try and impress the ladies i do it simply because i love greek with ladies. Becuse i am of larger size and width no I'm not tooting my own horn here it's just fact i like to know she is going to be ok with the size before i spend my money. So many times i have gotten to that point with a lady and she say now way thats to big for greek and while i still may have a good time with her it's not what i came for. Some even so called greek goddesses have turn me down but then I'll meet some little tiny girl who i would never think could and she performs like a champ. Anyway thats my own personal reason for including something about my size.

It is sad and pathetic when guys who pay women to have sex with them brag about what kind of studs they are.

I am older and not a hard body at all.  My favorite line is to wait until they are just about to mount be in cowgirl and say...I'm an old man darlin, so I have a favor to ask....they look at me and I say....FUCK ME HARD or HURT ME BABY....the looks I get.
 

Posted By: octavia.lexa

what is up with that?every guy who emails me mentioned how often they work out , and that they are in amazing shape and looking super handsome and much young...and gift of gods to women in general...why all men think girls are into the same type of guys...i personally like older men who look older and don't try too hard to fool the time and i prefer guys over 200lb...a little gut on a guy and cheeky face actually turns me on more than hard muscles, jet black colored hair, lipo, plastic surgeries etc  
   
 #beautyisintheeyesofbeholder  
   
 it is up to other people to decide if you are gl or vgl  
   
 besides it is not really masculine to ring your own bell...make it stop please)  
   
 lets not to forget to mention how a lot of guys mention in the first email how large they are and their amazing daty skills))  
   
 do other providers experience the same? and why you guys even bother to mention how often you work out when contacting the provider?do you think if you would not mention that, that gives you less chances to get a date?  
   
 cannot wait to hear opinions  
   
 

I get the fakery. However in real life when you pick your partner, there is attraction and no money is directly involved a woman is entitled to hers so she had better speak up or deal with less than optimal results.

So I advertise to mature and cuddly guys

well i had to market myself somehow and explain why i am worth spending time with....i will work on toning it down...thanks for the feedback...at least i do not have extravagant wish list ....i am at that moment in life when i am trying to own fewer items and keep my life simpler... i do not even go shopping except for necessities....i am pretty humble...  

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

And so fitting from someone who describes herself as "perfect companion", "very pretty", "very unique and special" etc.  
   
 But... how's your DATY skills?  
   
   
   
 (And to save Conan the trouble... it's "humility".)

finally a girl who has similar tastes in men as I do  

Posted By: Kitty_Rains

So I advertise to mature and cuddly guys