For me, I like it slow and I like lots of deep throat action.  I like my shaft licked and the same for my balls.  Although the sensation of having the head focused upon is awesome it takes me over the edge much too quickly.

No teeth, lots of hard suction (not fast and furious but a good hard 'vacuum' created).  I used to like the lady to swallow if we went to completion but now I'd rather finish all over her body or face, whatever she's into.

Hmmm...now I need to go and get a blow job!

That's a good question but I don't think I have an answer.  I'm a pretty 'visual' guy so I find it more of a turn on to see it.  I also found out, according to most of the girls I see, that I tend to have a rather large load so it's kind of fun to see their reaction to the whole thing.  In fact one young lady had me take a picture of her covered for an online contest she was entering...hahaha!

The paragraph about "Exploration and Sensation" describes a PERFECT start. Best BJ of my life started this way. In fact, the whole time ito was slow. Lots of gentle, gradual suction. Concentrated on the suction and the slow, sensual use of her hands and hair more than on DT or saliva. Had my toes curling. She swallowed, but even better, for me, would have been to let her mouth fill up, and then let it slowly drizzle out down her chin, back onto my dick.  

Then again, I also like a BJ that starts with the girl on her back and me on my knees, to her side so her head is turned sucking me while I'm free to explore her body. If she has big enough breasts, spend time between them while she sucks, too, either on her back or with me sitting on a chair. Only done the head off the side of the bed once, but damn I loved it. Would like to try it again.  

Sounds? Yes. Sloppy? As sloppy as possible. Hand usage? Absolutely.  

Still looking for a girl that will let me give her a facial on her knees with her mouth open and tongue out, true pornstar style. Asked once and the reaction made it seem like I offended the girl. Been shy to ask ever since.  

 

 
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no teeth
yes eye contact
like to touch her-hair- or whatever
yes to her hand involved-ass play is wonderful

Whenever you wake up thinking about how men like their cock ducked ... PLEASE .... call me ... I am particularly fond of this activity.  
Deep, wet, swirling tongue (YES!),  teeth (NO, I'm thick and get too much of this already), drooling, on you're back, in front of a mirror, BEHIND the mirror. I love them all.  

With such a few replies to your OP, I'm guessing your PM mailbox is full. ps ... I also like fucking .... a lot. Do you offer a birthday special

Know someone who would be willing to provide that, and that I needn't be shy with about asking?

Exploration and sensation?  
* Okay but not crucial

Neck kisses going down the chest.  
* Okay but not crucial  

Wet tongue running on your nipples.  
* Nice. Moreover, light finger-tip message on both nipples during the BJ action is a thriller for me. (Unfortunately, such precise gymnastics are difficult for many women.)

Fingers and nails sliding down toward your belly.  
* Okay but not crucial  

Ball licking.  
* I consider it a distraction.  
 
Slow and steady or full motion?  
* Slow and steady right through orgasm (about two seconds per cycle – one second down and one second back up)

Slow swirls of the tongue around the tip and the shaft.  
* Better yet maybe on the sensitive glans spot? Ask me about that.  

[Hand] strokes syncing with the mouth motion, slow caressing your shaft. Or fast sloppy, and wet enjoyment…  
* None of this
 
Teeth or no teeth?  
* No teeth

Balls play during blowjob?  
* No

Ass play during blowjob? Some guys really enjoy a prostate massage with fingers or toys during blowjob especially just before they cum!  
* I’m inexperienced at prostate action, but I do suspect that it’s a big deal. I need a lesson!  
 
Silent or sound?  
* Talk dirty any time! But beware any screams or moans if you’re at an apartment with open windows – or, worse yet, at a hotel with potentially snoopy staff in the corridor.  
 
Eye contact?  
* Yes! The 'sine qua non' of a BJ ! (Translation: Without which, nothing.)
 
Swallow or no swallow?  
* Her choice, which I always respect. (Wonderful frosting on the cake when it happens, but I'm there for the flavor and texture of the cake itself.

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my russian is rusty.... What does this have to do with the OP?

Ah... "Krem..." Got it... Facial cream....

It was great !!!
Some BJ are better then others . That's all!!!

Second, great image post ... my libido is in overdrive right now!

What I fantasize about the most and is most important to me, is when a women sucks my cock like she truly loves it. Even an average blow job feels really good most of the time, but when a woman looks at you and says "I love sucking your cock" and then demonstrates her affection, I'm literally blown away.

I prefer a woman who loves sucking my cock as much as I enjoy pleasing her with my tongue. And I love pleasuring a woman orally as much as cumming. Touche`

I'm more of an in the moment cummer. When I'm home and think  about my next encounter with a lady that I know I'm going to see soon, I envision what I want her to do. But I usually just go with the flow if Ive seen her before and know of her charms. If a woman is passionate about pleasing me with her mouth and is really good, I'll generally only gently steer her in a particular direction. I prefer her to just take me away and lay back and enjoy the ride. Then in the afterglow, I can joke about what I had on my mind before I got there.  

If a woman is equally prolific but more of a slurping, gagging deep-throating jewel, I'll become more engaged and vocal, usually in concert with her style. I'll encourage her to devour me as passionately as she dares.  

Then there's the slow deep sucking type when a woman enjoys the game, letting you know your cock will disappear deep in her throat at her whim while teasing your balls and shaft with long strokes of her tongue, bathing me anticipation of what's next.  

God, I love getting my cock sucked.  

Alexandra, if I may, is there an AR signature style that you prefer? A blow job that you'd stack against anyones. You're post portrays a woman of supreme confidence in her skills, while delivering your message in an inquisitive and unattached way. Or will those of us heretofore deprived of your skills and passion have to wait to experience them more deeply.  

I think you fit my last description. How will I ever find out

and your writing style is lovely ... but you do write with a touch of an accent which I find very sexy. We may have to continue this thread via a PM. Ciao, bella.

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Ladies.   Aleks has graphically and articulately portrayed every possible element of the MBBJ.    So, who is the best provider in the Boston community?   I understand It is YMMV on preferences - like comparing Renee Fleming to Katy Perry.    So who will volunteer for the MBBJ musical hall of fame?   (Aleksandra may be an honorary inductee.)

Twister

What a great thread, thanks so much Aleksandra!  I must say that a long, edging BJ is a treat to be enjoyed.  That, for me, includes lots of change of pace, slow licking of the head, a quick deep throat, BLS, maybe a little ass play, all designed to keep me on edge for 30, 40 50 minutes.  The orgasm that follows is always really, really intense.  At one time, in a hotel, I started yelling and the maid was outside knocking to see if everyone was OK....kind of humorous actually.

But the twist one of our lovely Boston ladies introduced me to was a little bullet vibrator.  Adding that in was really a new sensation.  She would hold it at the base of my shaft while swallowing me whole.  Use it on my balls while sucking the head.  Placed it next to my asshole, no insertion, while giving me a sloppy HJ with all the spit.  I really do recommend that everyone at least give this a try, it can be mind-blowing.

Sitting in a nice leather club chair with a long mirror in front. You on your knees in front of me. Your ass sticking out so I can admire your beautiful backside. You start by licking and sucking my nipples and continuing tweaking my nipples with your fingers as you slowly work your way down. Continue tweaking while gently licking my balls and slowly work you way up to licking my shaft with your tongue and then gliding your lips on my shaft. Then softly, slowly and sensually put your entire mouth over my cock and begin the heavenly bliss of going up and down. Feel free to take a break to come back and lick/suck the nipples or my balls. Generally love a cim finish...swallow is not necessary but greatly appreciated by those that do.  

I've been very fortunate to have many high quality experiences such as this and have TER and the lovely ladies to thank for it.

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Sitting bored in my hotel room in your fair city and started reading the local discussion boards. ok... I'll bite
 
Love eye contact during, lots of suckage, NO TEETH. all of the foreplay you mentioned is great around the shaft, body, etc. but once you have it in your mouth don't really want you going away from it. Never had a prostate massage during it, that might be interesting.  
 
Honestly though while I love to have a BJ, I have to admit I'll love giving orally as much as getting. Same way you were talking to start kissing all over her body then starting to range in on the special target. kiss and lightly nibble (usually no teeth) on the inner thigh right beside your pussy, brushing over it kissing lightly while I keep teasing around the area. Then when I start I start kissing and licking to make the clitoris erect if it isn't swollen already and start gently licking and teasing all around as I start gently sucking it into my mouth (no teeth) as I keep teasing it with my tongue. Sometime around then I usually start using a finger to start teasing and then slowly sliding in while never stopping with my mouth and tongue. working my finger and then two fingers to your G spot and start massaging it while my tongue keeps exploring and playing with your clitoris and looking up in your eyes (if they have not rolled into your head LOL). I keep massaging your G spot and your clit until your body tenses, your breath is fast and then your are holding it, then I feel your whole body shutter with at least one not shit, for real, intense orgasm.
 
I'm honestly not happy until I help you cum first. Then we can keep going until we both are exhausted.

Everybody in Russian knows - if woman over ceratin age looks as she is 30 - she swallows .
 gays men know that too  
 Men are  drinking own sperm stay young

 
 Cream is better - yet  swallowing is better  then any cream

Good for wives - they have one taste of sperm - has to use to that. an Have to be all fancy  young. I guess they  do not know  how keep man at home  and stay pretty and  young

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If a picture (or video) is worth a thousand words, I'd have to say my preferred method would be very similar to Camille Crimson's (check her out if you're not familiar) style, the only thing that could be added is a bit more oral attention. She seems to enjoy making love to her lucky mans cock and balls, my kind of lady.  
to my balls.

My motto is also "ladies first".  The big head runs the little head, and nothing gets my juices going better than a REAL, chin sopping O from my partner.  One obviously has to be willing to vary techniques and sometime employ a little patience -- one style does not fit all -- but for me it's a big part of the fun.

Great thread, Aleks.  I plan to take you up on this.  ;-P

There is nothing more gratifying than creating an intense and satisfying orgasm for my partner.   Raises my libido, and assures I may be invited back!

I want this.  

The ending, in particular.  

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=481870155

Mostly the tip!  It's the most sensitive part, just like a woman's clit.  Play with the boys while you're playing with the tip.  I love that!!!

When I was younger after several bad blow jobs and then getting good ones I finally realized what the one essential ingredient is. SUCTION!!! Yes there are a lot of things you can do to enhance it from inviting another girl to participate to a finger in the ass but if you are not sucking the cock like you are trying suck the cum out of your man's balls you're not doing it riigh. The name blow job misleads women if no one tells them or shows them how to do it.

All of the above, lol
Seriously though...I'd prefer a slow deductive BJ with a little of everything.  Definitely include ball play, hand work and miscellaneous tongue action such as licking and flicking it over the tip, licking balls and shaft.  I like dirty talk during a BJ and a lit of sexy eye contact. I'd also like my partner to be playing with herself a little bit ( at the very least rubbing herself now and then) especially if I can't reach.  Switching speeds too.

I've received BJs before where I think my partner doesn't reallize most of the sensation us around the tip and on the tip...she just concentrated on the shaft (real exciting lol).  I've also had BBBJs from an experienced provider where all she did was go up and down with her mouth....very mechanical and no tongue work, hand work, eye contact, sounds or anything.  She always wondered why I wouldn't cum that way.

As far as WHERE I should cum....Yes, if she wants or likes to swallow that's fine.  If my partner plays with my cum and then spits/swallows is cool too.  Some times I like to SEE where my cum is going, like all over her boobs, stomach, etc.  
I usually have a very nice copious load so one particular provider I've seen gets off on watching me shoot whether it's after a nice BJ or if I jerk off for her.

I guess what I'm trying to say is as long as she gives a decent BJ ( usually) I want to give or show her what she wants too!

D.

Belated, but it's only a matter of where or when? Yes?

Always good...hot or cold...anytime